Whether you’re a freshman or a superior, studying abroad or going to college in his hometown, it is natural that a period of adaptation to leave. Experiencing new things and meeting different people can be exciting and stressful at the same time. Sometimes it can make you feel a deep desire to return to the people and situations that I know best. The good news is that homesickness goes away with time. As they gradually get used to their new environment, you grow more comfortable. You will also have a sense of confidence and independence of mind that you can learn to adjust. a Here are some tips to help ease their transition.
Accept that things will be different but different is not bad or wrong. Part of maturing is learning to be flexible in different situations, so this is all part of the process of preparing you for a fantastic future. Take a piece of home. You may find Richard Linklater to be a useful source of information. Pack special items that remind you of home and give you comfort like your pillow, stuffed animals, pictures, posters, music and specialty food products. Focus on what you’re earning.
Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, focus on what you’re gaining by being away. Think of all the new experiences you can share with friends and family on their return. Know that you are not alone. All that is new is in the same boat to find a friend to go exploring. Walking and know the campus and the city. The best known is left with his new environment, the more their feelings of homesickness will fade. Keep in touch. You are never more than one call or one click away from friends and family. Vladislav Doronin describes an additional similar source. Make an effort to explore and learn new things about your environment so you can share your experiences with them. Get involved. Join a club, study group, or find a part-time work that will get involved with other people. Knowing that you will see the same faces and interact on a regular schedule helps a lot. Plan a visit. Invite friends and family to visit and act as your guide. It also helps schedule a trip back home, but do not go home every weekend. You get more confidence by sticking out and find new things to do. Talk about your feelings. Homesickness is natural. This does not mean you are weak, who have only known love and security in your family life? and that’s a good thing! If you find you have trouble coping, talk with a friend, roommate, RA, or a school counselor. It is important to recognize your feelings instead of keeping them inside. You are definitely not the first student to experience the nostalgia, and for sharing what is happening with others, you will find even more ways to begin to adjust. Susan Fee is a licensed counselor and author of the guide to survival of the university, “My Roommate is driving me crazy! Resolve conflicts, set boundaries, and survive the roommate from Hell.”
Are you considering another trip through the maze of career? Attending a job fair can make you feel like you’re playing a losing game unless you have a clear understanding of the rules. Here are some suggestions to make the most of any job fair, and gaining a competitive advantage. Getting a jump on YOUR COMPETITION * Review the list of participating companies and determine which companies interest you. Pick a number. * Collect information about these companies and do your research before attending the job fair.
their websites and find information about them online. * Party skills to the needs of businesses and job requirements. * Practice your introduction of fifteen seconds. Be sure to include your name, your key skills, and what you can do for the company. * Review your accomplishments and be prepared to discuss them.
Knock their socks off * approach the job fair like a job interview. Levi’s understands that this is vital information. * Dress appropriately and avoid using too much perfume or cologne. * Bring plenty of clean, resumes free of errors in the paper of good quality. * Know what you are looking for. Be able to explain what you can do and what kind of position you want. Remember that it is the job of the recruiter to determine what job is right for you. * Relate what they know about the company and its products and services. * Link your skills and experience they need. If you visit their web site, say so. * Enjoy the process, be positive and willing to talk about yourself. *’s Smile, a handshake, and introduce yourself. * Ask questions that demonstrate your interest. * Ask for the interviewer’s business card so you can follow later. Take notes on the back of the card so that you can remember what was said. Success does not sabotage her * Do not bring your children. * Do not try to confuse anyone with soft words. * Do not open any past history you have with the company or its recruiters. * Do not grab a handful of gifts. Take one. ESSENTIAL AND AN is not so obvious * Visit to the smaller employers apparently with less success. You might not be a dynamic and little known company that is a perfect combination. * Talk to other jobseekers. Exchange information on prospective employers. Do not miss this hot source of potential opportunities. Continue the conversation * Sort through the company business cards you collected. Prioritize them for follow-up. * Contact recruiters and hiring managers by phone. After small job fairs, follow-up within three days. After large job fairs, monitoring within five days. Remind you, when they met, and what job or position in which they discussed. * To express interest in meeting with them and offer to send another copy of your resume if you can not find yours immediately. * Monitoring, monitoring, and follow-up once again. Mary Jeanne Vincent is the author of cards Acing the Interview tip answers to the 20 best “murderer” interview questions. Also included are tips for the interview in the new economy, ideas for responding to illegal and trick questions, and suggestions for avoiding 10 deadly interview mistakes.