The best punishment is that one that if it negotiates. It tries to ask to the children what they deserve for its errors. You if will surprise. Of this form they will reflect on its attitudes, and perhaps, they will give a more severe punishment of what you would give. The punishment alone is useful when it will be intelligent. It always explains the reason of everything, does not leave nothing to be in doubt, this will help in the development of the moral judgment of its son. Then we ask in them again: How to educate with limits? The majority of the infantile behaviors is learned by means of the imitation, of the experimentation and the invention. What its children register of you? The negative or positive images? ALL.
They file daily its behaviors, are intelligent or dull they. What it generates the unconscious bonds is not alone what you say they, but also what they see in you. Many parents say wonderful things for its son, but he has pssimas ahead reactions of them. With the time an emotional abyss between parents and children is created. The image that its son constructed of you cannot more extinguished being, only rewrite.
To construct an excellent image establishes the wealth of the relation that you will have with its children. It is the intensity of the emotion that defines the quality of register. The Education of the children, more than what to impose the limits and to compel that they are respected, it must be transmitted through the values and principles of the family. Which are the values that vocs are teaching to its children? The lack of limits and disciplines is caused many times for the lack of time and attention excused to the child, what it generates very great an affective lack, and this lack of attention will be supplied of another one Incomodar, to molest, to provoke malaise in.